Then you need the "shifting fork" and a hole in the trans case to run the "shifter" through... and I'm not going to the shop fer a nutter pic! I just got home, been rewiring a friends old CJ6 Jeep and I'm wore out.
Kyle - look at it this way ... YOU wouldn't be paying for the funeral, she would be. So to save her some money just tell her that it's cheaper than a funeral. If you bought something then that's money spent once. If she pays for a funeral that's money spent twice (plus she has something that you left behind that she wouldn't know what to do with). So you tell her that if you buy something and she promises that you wont need a funeral then she'll save money by letting you have your way.