Brad I don't remember ever seeing the bolts pull through the couplers, especially when they are relatively new. Normally over time they will rotate like this one:
After they rotate and get weaker they will eventually get out of balance and go bad.
Since yours are pulling out at the bolt holes there must be a problem with the distance from the hydro to the engine. This could be caused by something put together wrong, the wrong shaft, or your engine is moving due to bad motor mounts.
I have seen different combinations on the configuration of the drive shafts on Quietlines depending on the year of the manufacture.
Some of the early Quietlines had a steel ball inside the rear coupler and the drive shaft had a indentation in the shaft that went against the steel ball to center it.
Some Quietlines had 1 rear coupler and 1 front coupler, while others had 2 rear couplers and 1 front coupler. My 782 has 2 rear couplers and 2 front couplers and I have modified some of my Quiet lines to that configuration.
Here is a Quietline with 2 couplers on the front:
Here is the same Quietline with 2 rear couplers:
Here is a picture of some different length drive shafts and different couplers.
The couplers with the large hole in the center are for Quietlines and the ones with the smaller hole in the center are for the older 1xx series cubs.
Whenever you use two couplers you have to use the Quietline one for clearance and then you can back that up with one of the older series couplers which due to the smaller hole are much stronger which is a big help if you are going to use you Cub with ground engaging equipment.
When you convert a Quietline to the double couplers both front and rear you need to build a new drive shaft.